LAKEWISE

The weeks following the holidays often bring excitement—and new technology—into our homes. Many children receive smartphones, tablets, gaming systems, or smart watches as gifts, opening the door to new ways to learn, connect, and have fun. While these tools can be wonderful resources, they also come with responsibilities and challenges that families should thoughtfully consider.

As a faith-filled community, we are called to guide our children not only in academics, but in character, kindness, and moral decision-making—including how they use technology.

Why Internet and Phone Safety Matters

Children today are growing up in a digital world where communication and information are always within reach. While technology can be used for good, it can also expose children to content and interactions that may not align with our values or be appropriate for their age.

Scripture reminds us, “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it” (Proverbs 4:23). Helping children guard their hearts and minds online is an important part of our role as parents and educators.

Common Risks Parents Should Be Aware Of

• Inappropriate Content: Even seemingly harmless apps or games may expose children to language, images, or ideas that conflict with family and faith values.
• Cyberbullying: Unkind words shared through texts, group chats, or social media can cause real emotional harm.
• Online Strangers: Many apps and games allow communication with people children do not know personally.
• Oversharing: Children may not understand the long-term impact of sharing personal information or photos.
• Excessive Screen Time: Too much device use can interfere with sleep, family time, prayer, and face-to-face relationships.

Guiding Children with Faith and Wisdom

Rather than avoiding technology altogether, we can teach our children to use it responsibly, respectfully, and with intention.

Begin with Open Conversations
Talk regularly with your child about what they do online. Ask questions, listen without judgment, and remind them that they can always come to you if something makes them uncomfortable. Reinforce that honesty and trust are essential in keeping them safe.

Set Clear, Faith-Based Expectations
Create family rules around technology use, such as:

• Devices used in shared family spaces
• Screen-free times for meals, homework, prayer, and bedtime
• Approved apps, games, and websites

These boundaries help children develop self-discipline and balance.

Use Parental Controls as a Support

Parental controls and privacy settings can help limit content, monitor usage, and manage screen time. These tools are helpful safeguards, but they should support—not replace—ongoing guidance and communication.

Teach Children to Be Digital Disciples
Encourage children to reflect Christ in all they do—even online:

• Use kind words and respectful language
• Stand up for others and avoid participating in negativity
• Think before posting or sending messages
• Ask themselves, “Does this reflect who God calls me to be?”

Model Healthy Technology Habits
Children learn by example. When parents model balanced device use, prioritize family connection, and make time for prayer and conversation, children are more likely to follow suit.

Working Together as a Community

At school, we strive to promote digital citizenship rooted in responsibility, respect, and faith. When families and schools work together, we create a strong foundation that helps children navigate the digital world safely and confidently.

Technology will continue to be a part of our children’s lives. With guidance grounded in faith, open communication, and clear expectations, we can help them use these tools wisely—always remembering that our greatest calling is to love God and love one another.

If you have any questions or concerns about internet or phone safety, please feel free to reach out. We are grateful to partner with you in guiding our students both online and off.